Sunday, September 14, 2008

Feeling A Little Melancholy (2)

I'm running out of descriptive phrases to use as titles.

That being said, let me add that this is going out to nobody in particular, but sometimes, I get caught up in a feeling of sadness and melancholy, and it's almost like having someone to talk to when I'm writing in my blog.

Hello darkness, my old friend,
I've come to talk with you again.

Because a vision softly creeping,
left its seeds while I was sleeping,
and the vision that was planted in my brain
still remains within the sound of silence.

In restless dreams I walked alone.
Narrow streets of cobblestone,
beneath the halo of a street lamp,
I turned my collar to the cold and damp.
When my eyes were stabbed by the flash of a neon light,
that split the night
and touched the sound of silence.

And in the naked light I saw ten thousand people,
maybe more.
People talking without speaking.
People hearing without listening.
People writing songs that voices never share.
And no one dared disturb the sound of silence.

"Fools" said I,
"you do not know silence like a cancer grows.
Hear my words that I might teach you.
Take my arms that I might reach you."
But my words like silent raindrops fell,
and echoed in the wells of silence.


And the people bowed and prayed, to the neon God they had made.
And the sign flashed out its warning,
in the words that it was forming.
And the signs said;
'the words of the prophets are written on the subway walls,
and tenement halls,
and whispered in the sounds of silence.


I take no credit for this poem. It was written and performed by Simon and Garfunkle (or is that Garfinkle?). Anyway here is the YouTube link one more time if you want to see and hear a particularly poignant rendition of "The Sound of Silence".

Deep Bayou Chowder

Some will (and have) told me that I should not concern myself with things that are none of my business, that I should go along to get along. I have never been able to live my life by that somewhat selfish credo.

So today, I present for your tastebuds delight, a dish not only delicious but heart healthy and diabetic friendly. I care about you all so much I want to keep you all arround, alive and kicking, for a long time.

Deep Bayou Chowder

  • Non-Stick cooking spray
  • 1 large carrot, chopped
  • 1 large green bell pepper, chopped
  • 1 1/2 cups chopped onion
  • 1 cup water
  • 8 oz red potatoes, diced
  • 1 cup frozen corn
  • 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
  • 2 cups fat-free (ie skim) milk
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons seafood seasoning
  • 2 tablespoons chopped parsley
  • 3/4 teaspoon salt (optional)
  • 1 shot gin (optional)
  1. Place Dutch oven over medium-high heat until hot and spray with cooking spray.
  2. Add carrot, pepper and onion and spray vegetables with cooking spray.
  3. Cook and stir about 4 minutes or until onions are translucent.
  4. Add water, potatoes, corn and thyme.
  5. Bring to a boil over high heat, then reduce heat to a simmer. Cover.
  6. Simmer 15 minutes or until potatoes are tender.
  7. Stir in milk, seasonings, and the optional ingredients of salt and gin.
  8. Cook for another 5 minutes

This will make 6, 1-cup servings.


As always, eat and enjoy.

Next weeks recipe (yeah, I know I said once per month again, but I changed my mind) will be another heart healthy, diabetic friendly recipe, Roasted Salmon with Sugar Snap Peas.

Last Night in Alameda

I went to Alameda last night and had a really good time, but I wasn't the only one. Here are some of the pictures I took, I hope you enjoy seeing them as much as I did taking them.



I would also like to take this chance to welcome a couple of new readers to "The Tao of Wesley". Kevin Roche and his husband Andrew Trembley. Congratulations on (in your words) your "constitutional inconvinience". To learn more about Kevin, you can follow this LINK to his blog.

Now, I would also like to take this opportunity to apologize for some of the things I had thought regarding I.S.E. and how disappointed I am now in someone I once held in high regard. I like to think I'm a pretty good judge of character, but when evidence is given to me that my faith was misplaced, well, let me just say I am very, very, VERY disappointed in you, but even more disappointed in myself.

I also want to let you all know how sorry I was to everyone at Alameda's function last night for speaking a bit loud at one point when the sound system had some technical difficulties, and for causing someone else who was there to react toward me in a somewhat belligerent fashion. I once said, when I fist started my blog, that I would "name names". Well, this person was apparently upset by my post of 7/20/08 called "Nutrisystem: Day 4". I went back and re-read the post, and not once did I mention this person's name, and I refuse to let him/her or anyone else make me feel guilty for what anyone else may think. My thoughts (even though I chose to share them with the world) are my thoughts, and their thoughts are their thoughts.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Where Have I Been?

Well, it's been a crazy week, and I swear, there just aren't enough hours in the day to get done everything I would like to get done. Until the Earth slows it's rotation down enough to give us the 28 hour day, sacrifices will have to be made.

I'm getting ready for my trip to Hayward tomorrow for the Empress Ms. Lady Cranberry. I don't care what anyone else says, and I don't care if I'm kicked out of the court system, Cranberry, I will always think of you as an empress of, if nothing else, peoples (or at least my) heart. Let Diana be the queen, you ARE the empress.

I'm baking one of my special applesauce cakes to bring you for your step-down, and I've been rehearsing for the last week the song I plan to perform. It's all for you Cranberry. By the way, if you, or anyone else would like to buy one of my applesauce cakes, just send an e-mail, and order. The cakes are $30.00 each, plus shipping and handling. Come to Stockton to pick up the cake yourself, and there is no "S&H" for the applesauce cake. Just make sure to write "applesauce cake" in the subject box, because I tend to delete or mark as spam e-mails from people I don't know. Or, you can post a comment on the blog.

Sorry to you all by the way for not posting a recipe last Sunday. I had gone to the Renaissance Pleasure Faire the day before, and I was recovering from a combination of to much fun and 1st degree sunburn. OUCH!!!

I will be posting one this coming Sunday (9/14/08) and going back to my previous one recipe per month format. There was very little interest in my idea of auctioning off a special meal made up to the recipes I had presented that month (none at all in fact). So it's back to my "Recipe of the Month" folks. Tomorrow, I will be posting a very special recipe for a friend of mine who suffers from diabetes. It's a diabetic, heart healthy recipe for "Deep Bayou Chowder". You'll need a Dutch oven for this dish.

Well, that's it for this post. I'll be posting the next chapter from the "Epic of Gilgamesh" next. Hope you've been enjoying it. Remember, it's a 3,500 year old gay love poem.

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

In 365 Days!

I'm almost to embarrassed to show you what I'm going to show you, and please understand, this is NOT the official "before" picture I plan on submitting to Nutrisystem. It's just for my blog.

This is me at 251 lbs, wearing my "Skinny Clothes". The shirt is a size large and the pants are 34" waist. I swear, I was once able to wear them buttoned up, and my plan, within the next 365 days is to be able to button them up again!

The weight kind of snuck up on me. It mostly started after 9/11. With everything that was happening that day, and the following days, I spent more time watching the news and eating pizza than going to the gym. Then I started gaining more while going to Heald College to get my accounting degree. I had more important concerns than going to the gym or watching my diet. Then, there was the depression of only being able to get temp-work and part time employment and having to depend on the loving kindness of my grandmother just to make my rent. There were other reasons as well, but I can hear what some of you are thinking, "Excuses, excuses, excuses!".

Well, I'm not making excuses now, I'm stating a goal. In 365 days (or less hopefully) I will take another picture like this wearing the same clothes. In 365 days, I WILL have the pants buttoned up! Hell, I may even take the picture without my shirt on. How hot would that be?!?!

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Less Time Than I Thought

I honestly thought it would be some long, dragged out process, getting the video converter downloaded onto my computer, but it took hardly any time at all, so here it is, as promised, my trip through the maze at the 2008 Renaissance Pleasure Faire, enjoy.

(Warning! For those with short attention spans, this video is 3 minutes and 48 seconds long)

The Renaisance Pleasure Faire-2008

Well, a few words of text anyway :)

Let me start out by saying I have never been to the Renaissance Pleasure Faire in September before, and I will never, NEVER, NEVER go in September again. I got a killer sunburn and I'll be washing the dust off my body for the next few days (I really need someone to help me get to those hard to reach "naughty bits"). But still, I had a good time, as the pictures I'm posting will demonstrate.

As soon as I get my camera and video converter fixed, I'll be adding a video showing my trip through a maze at the faire. I'll bet you all just can't hardly wait.